marcydt25
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Re:I'm Ok, You're Ok - 2006/03/24 14:17
I'm not sure what you mean about not attaching..... the very nature of a relationship implies an attachment to that person. otherwise it's just a momentary crossing of paths. I believe that the most successful relationships occur when we speak each other's love language. Whether it's with a mate, a sibling, parent or friend. When we figure out what makes them happy and then we 'speak' that to them, they then know that they are important to us, and when they speak our love language, we know we are important to them.
See: the Five Love Languages by Dr. Gary Chapman
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